The Enigma called her

She is hurt. I dunno if she herself is responsible for it or someone else. But she is hurt. She feels she has been tortured all these years. But i tend to think differently, how can one judge parents just coz they are not like u. How can you think parents have no love for you. It's true that every parent wants their child to be good in life. But that "goodness" will have different meaning in each of them's book. They might not be like how the child wants. This can irritate the child. I purely believe this is just a misunderstanding here. Why dosen't she feel her parents dosen't like her. Is it because they wanted her to live the life they chose for her? or because she thinks her siblings are given more importance than her? or is it something like they have always been harsh to her and spanked her in front of everybody? There are answers for all these questions even if one of them proved to be a reason. ok, Regarding first one, you should be lucky to have parents who put child's ambitions and tastes ahead of their way of living the life. Those kind will be one in 100's. Most are like that. But again you have to understand that they think you would lead a happy life if you live the same success formula like them. That does not mean they hate you. Regarding the second point, Here again that sibling thing is kind of an overrated thingy. Because eventhough parents are bound to be equal to their children there would be that slant towards one over another. But again that does not mean they hate you. Ok, now to the third point, Being harsh. Yes, there has been times i felt my parents were being really harsh to me. I felt like quiting house. But understood with the nick of time that those were pointless thoughts. Because there would be times they would be harsh to you for eg: relating this to the first point i made ie they being selfish. Like thay can be harsh if don't pursue their way of living. That woould make you feel they hate you. But you will know the real them when you are in strife which they can understand or guage. Trust me you will be fine with them than being without them.